As the parent of an ADHD child, you see firsthand what your child endures. From dealing with ADHD in school to trying to make friends, the ADHD child goes through a lot, starting at a young age. Throughout these experiences, you hope that your child will be able to bounce back quickly and be resilient enough to try again.

How can you help your ADHD child be resilient? It sounds simple, but the most important thing you can do is to tell your child you love him, support him, and will never give up on him. Every child needs to have at least one adult who cares, someone who is deeply invested in his or her life and welfare. This love and support provides your child with a foundation on which to grow, and also a soft place to turn when the going gets tough.

To prove this point, think about your own life for a moment. Have you ever gone through a rocky spell when it seems like there’s no hope? What helped you carry on? For most people, the one thing that keeps them going is thinking about their loved ones. When all else fails, the person who loves you the most is the one who gives you the strength to recover from the pitfalls of life. Parents of ADHD children are the only people who can offer this unconditional love and support to the children who need it the most.

The most precious gift you can give to your child with ADHD is simply being there through thick and thin, voicing your support.