Coping
Strategies for the ADHD Teenager
For
teenagers with ADHD, growing up into a self-sufficient
adult might seem a bit overwhelming at times. The
teenage years are difficult for anyone, but for those
with ADHD, being a teenager comes with a whole new
set of goals and circumstances.
Sadly,
to the outside world, teenagers with ADHD are sometimes
viewed as less capable of living up to their potential.
Of course, this accusation is not true! The ADHD
teenager usually has good intentions of doing
homework, paying attention in class, and cleaning
his or her room. Somehow, unfortunately, the distractions
of ADHD might get in the way of what the ADHD teen
tries to accomplish.
Never
fear, though, because there’s plenty for the
ADHD teen to be hopeful about. By learning some key
ways to cope with attention difficulties, the ADHD
teenager can stay on course toward a bright future:
Learn
educational rights. In both high school and
college, there are laws to help teenagers with ADHD
in the classroom.
Be
goal oriented. The ADHD teenager should not
be overloaded with lots of goals. He or she should
choose one goal, work on it until it’s completed,
and then go on to the next goal. The goal could be
getting a part-time job, applying for colleges, or
watching less TV.
Get
to know oneself and the way ADHD affects the brain.
Observe study habits and behavior. How does the teenager
with ADHD learn best? Taking notes? Studying in a
group? Audio books? Find out what helps him or her
to succeed and stick with it.
Choose
a career that fits the diagnosis. People
with ADHD are more suited to some jobs than others.
When the time comes to choose a career, the teenager
may want to consider how ADHD will affect him or her
at work. The ADHD career
choice can be based on the positive qualities
of ADHD.
Do
not fall victim to self-medication with alcohol and
drugs. ADHD teenagers are more likely to
try alcohol and drugs as a way to cope with the condition.
Teenagers should find ways to stay away from recreational
drug and alcohol use. Teenagers can speak to your
parents, a counselor, or a doctor if they are tempted
to drink or take drugs. Teenagers also can get involved
in anti-drug campaigns and avoid those peers who experiment
with drugs.
Be
very careful when driving. ADHD teenagers
are also more likely to get into car accidents. When
it comes to ADD
teens and driving, teenagers should limit distractions
in the car like cell phone use, music, and passengers.
Try
to stay away from TV and video games. Brain
studies have shown that for some people, TV and video
games stimulate brain chemistry in unhealthy ways,
similar to drug addiction. TV and video games also
provide an easy distraction that an ADHD teenager
does not need.
Speak
to adults more often. Teenagers with ADHD
should feel free to set up meetings with guidance
counselors, teachers, doctors, and other adults in
his or her life. Teenagers can speak to them about
the future and ask them for advice. Plus, by keeping
their own appointments, ADHD teenagers learn how to
be more self-reliant adults.
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