ADD, A Disorder That Can Affect Relationships
While sometimes thought only to affect children, adults too can have difficulty with symptoms relating to attention deficit disorder, or ADD. Disorder symptoms are often different in adulthood than they are in childhood, however. Adults can experience the same problems with forgetfulness and inattentiveness, but unlike children, these issues manifest themselves in different ways, causing problems with a person's career and personal relationships, even if others involved do not have ADD. Disorder symptoms can disrupt adult relationships in various ways that are helpful to be aware of, including:
- Quick temper and arguing - Adults with ADD tend to have shorter focus and shorter fuses than adults without the disorder, and this can create larger fights out of small problems. And although it is the ADD adult's responsibility to learn how to deal with his or her temper, the person without ADD can help their partner by giving them the space and time they need to calm down.
- Bad memory - For adults with ADD, disorder symptoms include memory problems, and this may cause trouble in relationships if the ADD adult forgets an important date like an anniversary or birthday. In these instances, it is important for those without ADD to recognize these mistakes are not made on purpose or because of a lack of caring.
- Lack of connections - While a partner who does not have ADD can feel a constant connection with his or her partner, ADD individuals occasionally may feel like they have trouble maintaining the bond. This can put stress on relationships, and it's important for those without ADD to work with their partners to help avoid these types of issues.
Couples, friends, coworkers, and other acquaintances should try to work together when dealing with symptoms of ADD. Disorder related issues can put stress on a relationship, but all relationships have stress. With understanding and compromise, couples can live happily ever after.
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